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Speed Up Routines with Tickets for Your Little Engineer

January 20, 2013 By Jessica Petersen 12 Comments

Every so often, I come up with an idea that works really well with the Little Engineer.  And then things get better, and I phase the idea out (or, more accurately, I forget to do it because it’s no longer necessary at the time).  Which is just as well, because most of these ideas stop working so well when the novelty wears off.  But then I forget to try it again when it becomes necessary once more.

This is one of those ideas, a way to speed up the bedtime routine and get in a little reading practice at the same time.  And I’m glad I came across this photo, because otherwise I wouldn’t have remembered to try it again.

Speed up Routines with Tickets for Your Little Engineer @ Play Trains!  A fun and effective way to keep kids who love trains on task.

Until he passed the two-and-a-half-year mark, the Little Engineer was always more or less on Team Go To Sleep Quickly.  Which isn’t to say he always went to sleep quickly, just that he was rooting for our side.  And then, suddenly, he wasn’t.  And hasn’t been since then.  Sometimes he’s purposefully stalling, but most of the time he just has a hard time focusing on getting ready and going to sleep.

I can’t really blame him.  After all, his dada is home from work, he’s just tanked up on fuel at dinner time, and now it’s time to play…right?  I feel the same way after he falls asleep and I can finally get to some of the things I want to do on my own.  The only difference is I don’t have my mama with me to remind me to go to sleep.

At the time this started, the Little Engineer was really into making “tickets” from these cheap notepads we picked up at Ikea. (He still is, but it’s not a daily occurrence at the moment, mostly because the supplies haven’t been right out in the open.)  I found a normal hole punch for him to punch them with, but when that proved too difficult for his little hands, I got him this star punch.  Then one night, as the frustration with bedtime started to rise again, it hit me:  tickets for bedtime.  Everything he has to do is another stop on the bedtime train.  Or something.  ANYTHING to get him in bed somewhat near bedtime.

Bedtime Train Tickets

So I started making tickets for everything he had to do.  I arranged them in the order I wanted him to do them in, and then explained that he couldn’t punch a ticket until he’d visited the “station” written on it.  Of course, he LOVED this.  Punching the tickets was a great motivator.  And the unexpected bonus was that as we went over the tickets each night, we sounded out the words, and it got so that he could recognize several of the common ones on his own with no help.

Now that I think of it, the tickets also worked with the bane of my existence: getting out the door on time. Why haven’t I been doing this lately?  Off to make some tickets!

Have you come up with a great way to get your toddler or preschooler into bed or out the door? Because assuming the tickets still work, they won’t work forever, and I’ll be looking for another great idea soon. Bonus points if it involves trains. Or hamsters, meerkats, mice, bunnies, or cats. Or jumping.

Filed Under: Cool Train Stuff, Parenting Little Engineers, Preschoolers, Social, Emotional, and Practical Skills, Toddlers, Train Obsessed Tagged With: parenting, pretend play, tickets

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Comments

  1. Melanie @ Raise A boy says

    January 20, 2013 at 7:30 pm

    What a great idea and I love your site! My almost 2 1/2 year old son received his first train for Christmas and absolutely loves it. Will have to come back for more fun train ideas!

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    • Jessica says

      January 21, 2013 at 2:24 am

      He must be so excited about that train! I have the greatest pictures from when my son got his first train set. Such pure joy! Definitely come back. I have many more train ideas to share. 🙂 Thanks for coming by!

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  2. Jennifer says

    January 23, 2013 at 4:56 am

    This is GENIUS!! I’m going to make up some picture cards for my 3 year old tomorrow. He’s been so goofy at bedtime, it’s hard to get him to focus, but this would be perfect for him. I found your blog through a color matching train activity on Pinterest, and I’ve been enjoying your posts. As the mom of a train obsessed little boy, this is perfect for us. Thanks for sharing!

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    • Jessica says

      January 23, 2013 at 6:11 am

      Thanks! We have a lot of goofy at bedtime these days, too, but tricks like this really help. I’m so glad you found the blog and enjoy it! You’re exactly the reason why I’m writing it…I know too much about trains now to not try to share it with the parents of other train lovers. 🙂

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  3. Little Hearts/Gentle Parenting Resources says

    May 3, 2013 at 2:51 am

    Love this idea! My littlest is still too young for this, but my first-grader will love it. 🙂 For finding shoes and getting out the door, we sometimes go on a rescue mission to save our shoes from the lava monster, then hop to the van (because of the lava, lol)and see who gets there first. I make sure my little people win and get their reward (tickle-kisses while buckling up!)

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    • Jessica Petersen says

      June 9, 2013 at 7:27 am

      That sounds like so much fun! Everything always works better with my son when I remember to make it fun.

      Reply
  4. Rachael :: Nothing if Not Intentional says

    May 3, 2013 at 3:57 am

    I seriously love this! I was about to google ideas to help with bedtime stalling when I found this! 2 1/2 must be the magical age for fighting bed! Thanks! (and pinned!) 🙂

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    • Jessica Petersen says

      June 9, 2013 at 7:32 am

      Thanks, Rachael! 2.5 was a rough age for us, so I was always happy to have any trick that I could find or figure out work!

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  5. Trisha @ Inspiration Laboratories says

    June 7, 2013 at 3:23 am

    I love this idea! The reading practice paired with an incentive to do something – brilliant!!

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    • Jessica Petersen says

      June 9, 2013 at 7:35 am

      Thanks, Trisha! And I think the reading practice furthers the distraction from the fact that he’s doing what I want him to do, so it all works together nicely!

      Reply
  6. Tatiana says

    August 21, 2014 at 12:59 am

    Thanks so much for sharing! The idea is super great! My son will love it! Tanks again!

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  7. Paige says

    February 4, 2018 at 12:30 pm

    This is stinkin’ GENIUS!!! Making tickets RIGHT NOW! My little engineer gets in no hurry to do anything or go anywhere. Thank you!!!

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